Sitting here in the old farm house waiting for the Kentucky Derby to
run. Denise is making the traditional Mint Julips, the Derby must
drink, which she makes with her own home grown Mint, as we wait with great expectations of this great horse race.
We are horse people. We love them. I was raised on a horse farm, and
have always had some horses around me. I find the sport of horse racing
to be the ultimate sporting event, the combination of man and animal
meshed together, performing a great physical effort that the horse and
jockey are both born to do. I find a very similar connection between
the thouroghbred and the hillbilly singer...both are born to the
art...both are born to run...both never get the urge to run completely
out of their system.
About twenty years ago I went to a horse
sale and saw a beautiful black horse that I just had to have. I bought
the horse, without knowing anything about its origin, something I
ordinarily would never do. Well, I got the horse home to the farm we
had then and started working with the horse to get him use to me.
Finally, I started to saddle up, both the new horse and another horse we
had then that Denise rode. I swung into the saddle and Denise did the
same, as we guided the horses out to our 50 acre pasture. We started
trotting along, them moved up to a gentle lope. Denise brought her
horse up next to mine and when she drew alongside...my new horse just
exploded. I have been riding ever since I was 4 years old, and I have
never felt any thing like the speed that the new horse burst into. I
grabbed a handful of mane and held on for dear life. That horse was
flying low over the pasture, leaving Denise far behind. Slowly, I began
to realize that the horse was not running away...he was racing! At the
end of the field, I finally got him slowed down to a normal gallop and
then a trot and to hold up and stop.
Later, when I was taking
the tack off the horses, I had a thought. I went to the horses head,
gently rubbing his nose, and lifted up his upper lip. Sure enough,
there was the tattoo of his racing number certification...the horse was a
retired racer! When Denise came up alongside him, he did what he had
been born to do...he raced.
So it goes, a horse born to run,
is always gonna try to do it. A hillbilly singer, born to run the roads
and sing, is always gonna feel the urge. You do what you are born to
do, until you realize, finally, that your running days are behind you. I
reckon horses lack the ability to realize that, and keep running til
they drop, or break a leg.
A lesson I learned, on my first
night on the Grand Ole Opry, in 1961, and it was Roy Acuff that taught
me the lesson. The second song that I sang that night, I was given an
ovation that Roy felt deserved an encore, he put his arm around my
shoulder and said, "They want more son, give it to 'em". As I stepped
back to the mike to do my first encore as a professional, I opened my
mouth to hit another verse, and Brother Oswald, the banjo, dobro,
harmony singer and comedian for the Acuff Show, come running out to do
his comedy routine. He came running by me, squalling like a calf eating
briars, tripped on one of the footlights, and flew out into the front
row of the old Ryman Auditorium, landing in the lap of a plump lady from
Ohio, causing an explosion of glee from the audience that completely
overshadowed my little ovation of a few seconds before. As they were
picking up Brother Oswald, and fluffing up the nice lady from Ohio,
kinda like an overstuffed couch...I left the stage and went on back to
the dressing room.
I was setting there in the dressing room,
pondering the encore that almost was...when Mr. Acuff came in looking
for me. He walked over, put his hand on my shoulder and said, "Stan,
Oswald shouldn't have done that, messing up your encore, and I know he
will probably tell you later that he's sorry, but ya'know, we are all
here tonight to just entertain these good folks that paid their money to
come see the show. They got entertained mighty good tonight, son, when
Oswald did his high dive off the stage, and you were part of it....be
proud, you done good tonight."
Well, I took that advice to
heart, never had another attack of ego or self pride, and realized that,
no matter how good you have just done, somebody else can come out of
nowhere and run right by you...and bring down the house. And all you
have to do is, be glad that you were a part of it all. It don't matter
who gets the credit, just do your best and let that be your
satisfaction. Thank you Mr. Acuff, and thank you Brother Oswald, you
both taught me an important life lesson that I have never forgotten.
And thank you, you beautiful black thoroughbred, you were born to run
and nothing or no one was gonna stop you. I sold you when we got ready
to move back to Tennessee, but i told the man who bought you, "He's a
runner, man, he's a runner, be sure and let him run."
Well, the
horses are coming close to the starting gate, and the Kentucky Waltz is
being sung by the crowd, the sloppy track is going to make it very
interesting. Let 'em run, son, let 'em run....stan
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